'Bringing it back to our relationship with ourselves is key, for otherwise it can be all too easy to demand from another what we are not prepared to live for ourselves.' - Brendan Mooney Psychologist
|
'The phrase 'don't judge a book by its cover is potentially relevant when it comes to relationships getting together or separating. The outplay of what occurs is important to be understood otherwise we can fall for what we think we see rather than observing how it truly is. Some relationships that separate are an evolving experience for both people, some that get together are stunting for both etc...it is a very personal situation in each case to be understood with true discernment.' - Brendan Mooney Psychologist
'With honesty we feel empowered and not overwhelmed by life. With honesty we allow ourselves the opportunity to get to the truth of what is going on rather than what we otherwise believe or perceive is going on.' - Brendan Mooney Psychologist
'Appreciation supports us to deeply surrender within ourselves, understanding who we are by our true qualities only and not by any other means. The greater the deepening within, the grander our relationship with everyone and everything…' - Brendan Mooney Psychologist
'We chase what we think we want on the outside only to find that even when we get it the emptiness within remains. Giving ourselves permission to express our true qualities, irrespective of what is going on around us, is the key…' - Brendan Mooney Psychologist
'When we connect to our past it doesn't have to be from a place of guilt, shame, remorse etc. but from simply observing. In this we don't hold ourselves to ransom but take responsibility for the choices we have made.' - Brendan Mooney Psychologist
'It is important to acknowledge that if we have given up on people in anyway that this has come from giving up on ourselves first. Otherwise life becomes about blaming others and/or circumstances to avoid taking responsibility for our part in the lack of brotherhood we see in the world...for how many of us can truly say that we live every moment in support of unity for all?' - Brendan Mooney Psychologist
'Unfortunately as a society we have made love a word rather than a way of living. In doing so any manner of ills can be pardoned because with the right words and behaviours we can basically dress up anything to make it look good.' - Brendan Mooney Psychologist
'To think that life is random or that it ‘just happens’ is a choice to completely avoid self-responsibility.' - Brendan Mooney Psychologist
'We are all one and the same on the inside...a simple truth yet we have not made it our common experience as a global society. Whilst we may feel moments of this it is not the predominant experience of life for most and has never been throughout history. Perhaps as a society we ought to consider why this is the case?' - Brendan Mooney Psychologist
'Letting go of outcomes in life is a big one. How often do we attach to a certain result, which in many cases isn't necessarily so obvious until we don't get it…' - Brendan Mooney Psychologist
'Considering the quality we do everything in is a global game changer. We often consider how fast we walk, for example, or how far etc. however are we considering the actual quality we are moving in? What if changing the quality in the way we move can lead to a profound change in deepening our relationship with ourselves and with everyone we have relationships with? Are we ready to accept the simplicity of this?' - Brendan Mooney Psychologist
'Appreciating that everything in life is a learning is key, for otherwise we can judge a situation as being 'negative' or 'positive'. True understanding allows us to feel that nothing is negative or positive, right or wrong…it just is.' - Brendan Mooney Psychologist
'It is worth very personally considering the reflection we are offering the world. We can never stop reflecting no matter how much we may think we can live in our own little world...the question is what quality are we reflecting?' - Brendan Mooney Psychologist
'It all starts with one person. From one person another can be inspired and then another and so on…' - Brendan Mooney Psychologist
|
Brendan mooney
|